Confessing to a girl in the same office and getting rejected?

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  1. censy

    censy Castitatis Lilium GVN Veteran

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    Hey guys :D

    As the title said, I confessed to a girl, in my company, at lunch time, and got rejected. "Con thầy vợ bạn gái công ty" they say. (@wiwi-if-you-are-reading-this yea that gal :()

    No shame though (wouldn't have posted here if I felt any bit of disgrace heheh). It's just that feeling "Where the fack was I wrong?" that has been bugging me cuz before this she was like all into me and shit :4cool_beauty:

    Anyway, I'll move on, find new prettier girls and enjoy life. Just wanna create a new pool for ppl here :D
     
  2. Phọt Ra Quần

    Phọt Ra Quần Mười năm nay tao chưa đánh răng GVN Veteran

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    lol that sux bro, cheer up.
    To be honest I've been in your shoes a few time myself, only to be the rejecting side. It was kinda hard to talk to them closely like before, but you'll be surprised how quickly it passes away. People nowadays only needs days to be friends again. Or at least that how they look.
     
  3. Máy Bắn Đá

    Máy Bắn Đá Mr & Ms Pac-Man

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    Just act professionally at work. Time will bring everything back to normal .
     
  4. *Inferno_Kami*

    *Inferno_Kami* Mario & Luigi

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    U sure u no got kinda predatory raep face when confessin' bruh?

    J/k. My friend got a case like that. It's commendable that u shud just send her into oblivion . If she ever sparked a chit chat with you, just refuse and ignore.
    'll save ya lotta time in prospect
    Trust n' don't ask why. 2 lazy 2 type n elaborate
     
  5. censy

    censy Castitatis Lilium GVN Veteran

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    Thanks for the advice guys. I work in a company where 80% of the employees are female so it isn't a matter :D

    Wait you think the other 20% are all male? Much mislead.
     
  6. *Inferno_Kami*

    *Inferno_Kami* Mario & Luigi

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    80% u said ?
    Ever heard o' female gossip ?
    "Just dump dat gai"
    "Oh how so"
    "He was not as gentle as my imaginary friend"
    Spice and slice added up
    "He assault her w overflowin lust she said no ima purely chaste but he's cru"
    And the tale goes on...
    Someday...
    ...You'll be overlooked and depicted as character of sexual offender
    ...No stop lingering whatsoever on harrassment and adultery
    ...Some one will have legacy to conspire your criminal record ever existed
    ...You want to explain but laid off. Tolerance ? Not for conviction
    ...You wanna explode and you'll find yourself on top of a building

    Congratulation ! youve reached a new low!
     
  7. censy

    censy Castitatis Lilium GVN Veteran

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    Yup it's the worst case that she goes around blabbing this dumping thing to the whole company -___- But after all the time I spent with her I don't think she's that kind of person, or that's what I want to believe ~_~
     
  8. Phọt Ra Quần

    Phọt Ra Quần Mười năm nay tao chưa đánh răng GVN Veteran

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    Go back to our world.
     
  9. dark_dragons

    dark_dragons Hyperion Captain Moderator GVN Veteran

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    Will he go gay?
     
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    DevVn The Warrior of Light GVN Veteran

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    He's always been.
     
  11. censy

    censy Castitatis Lilium GVN Veteran

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    Why is it that when I get rejected by a girl, my brain keeps on telling me that "She's the one in your life, you don't have her you will ******* die" and makes me think and do stupid things?

    My brain is a dick.

    Anyway, happy children's day, mấy ku.
     
  12. Mr.Garfield

    Mr.Garfield The Cat GVN Veteran

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    Just get rejected a few more times.
     
  13. Xenogear

    Xenogear The Last of Us Quy ẩn giang hồ

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    I am not saying that you should use Rohypnol
    I am pretty sure it's not legal and should not be promoted on the internet
    You definitely SHOULD NOT consider using Rohypnol
     
  14. censy

    censy Castitatis Lilium GVN Veteran

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    Omg why did i only read about this just now :((

    <:-p
     
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    scherzo Youtube Master Race

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    poor you............................................
     
  16. Fire Emblem

    Fire Emblem Keliena Mintha GVN Veteran Quy ẩn giang hồ

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    I am fond of a guy at work but control myself so good that I never dreamt we would be together. So, normal teasing and stuff ect... He treated me a quite differently with other gals at work, too.

    One day the guy approached during our dept's bar time. Kinda like this, other dept members left the bar for dinner, after that we would go to other bar so I sat alone watching ppl playing billard, no problem at all.

    Then he asked me to sat with him and his friends at his table.

    Then insisted that I had to go with him to other bars and restaurants. He said it was my birthday so~~

    During the bar time, he confessed that he loved me, did not mind to show it in front of his friends.

    After all the alcohol time, I took him home then asked to leave. I knew he had a girlfriend but no clue if they broke up.

    The guy insisted that I had to come in, saying he had been wanting this for one year and a half. We nearly had sex but I decided to leave instead (I was in my period, and it was not clear about his girlfriend which I could not ask)

    After that I found out the guy somehow managed to open the forbidden door, I missed him terribly.

    He said a few days later things at the moment are complicated.

    Is there a chance we could be together, or I should just bow out?
     
  17. Mr.Garfield

    Mr.Garfield The Cat GVN Veteran

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    He said he loves you and you seem open up to the idea. I'd say there's definitely a chance.

    But you should tell him to clear things up with his girlfriend before getting involve. In the mean time I think the best course is just keep things normal.
     
  18. Fire Emblem

    Fire Emblem Keliena Mintha GVN Veteran Quy ẩn giang hồ

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    Actually I did ask later if we could go out. He said things were complicated and didn't want the relationship between us got weird.
    So basically I can't talk further with him about this subject.

    For me his answer was coward so by doing that he got a huge minus point. I can't put my pride down.

    (I want that girl to break up with him and has a tragic life afterwards, really :D)
     
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  19. Mr.Garfield

    Mr.Garfield The Cat GVN Veteran

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    So he basically chickened out of it huh? Bastard!
     
  20. Fire Emblem

    Fire Emblem Keliena Mintha GVN Veteran Quy ẩn giang hồ

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    Yeah, I post here just because somewhere inside I still want to give him a chance. That's it...

    I have to admit the guy is physically attractive, good kisser, and until now he's been giving the best answers to all of my teasing so far.

    My last two weeks have been in misery +_+' Silly me...
     

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