Some tips to overcome a break up + Focus on your life, your family and friends who are always be there for you. Don't forget them becuz some ***** put the horns in your a-ss + Try not to blame yourself. She betrayed you so let it be. Don't give a f*ck. One day she'll regret. True story. + Don't feel sorry. Now you're officially free again. You can be with anyone else. You can talk, flirt or even f*ck other girls. That shouldn't be much miserable. + Cry if you can. Actually, cry as hard as you can. It shall make you feel better. Your life is better without her.
I think it's perfectly natural to be sad so don't try to push yourself to stand up and pretend nothing has happened. Give yourself a month to recover. Why does love hurt everybody?
lol, did you know some people become burden to their family or end up commiting crime through alcohol at the excuse of remedy? It's not alcohol, time that is. It took me a long time, almost 4 years until I became stable again. My personality did change for the worse but I no longer brood over my first love anymore.
"I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." Mother Teresa.
speaking of saint teresa: "…his great golden spear…filled with fire… plunged into me several times… penetrated to my entrails…a sweetness so extreme that one could not possibly wish it to stop." St. Teresa (quote from Angels and Demon - Dan Brown) - - - Updated - - - speaking of saint teresa: "…his great golden spear…filled with fire… plunged into me several times… penetrated to my entrails…a sweetness so extreme that one could not possibly wish it to stop." St. Teresa (quote from Angels and Demon - Dan Brown)
Contrary to what you guys and almost everyone advise, I'm trying to fix and heal, rather than forget and forsake the relationship. It may sound stupid but well, to each his own.
So you decided to forgive and take her back? Alcohol sometimes help me to release my emotion, you know, to shed some tears, so i wouldn't dismiss it entirely, so long as you don't abuse it.
Work hard, senpai. I don't know if it's possible though, 'cause my case was meaningless since I'm the one who wanted to break up, so I cannot give any advice on this knitties. Alcohol didn't work out for me but music did
If you think this relationship worths your efforts. Then do it. Fix it if you want. Forgiving seems right enough if you can handle the truth and forget what've happened. I just hope she deserves it and won't break your heart again.
Oh, don't think too much, they only give you advice. Whether you do thing according to advice or not is up to you. The only thing that matters is how you feel towards what you do/will do.